Sunday, April 29, 2007

Holla!!!

This is an official shout out to best-friend Holly...

pictured below, revealing herself as my favorite literary hero of Concord Mass
So, in honor of Holly - as a gesture of love and appreciation since I've been so neglectful & busy and in so doing have not connected via tele - I will insue to write a top 5 list of the last 2 days of my life.

Erin's Top Five ALL TIME occurrences of my life in the last 48 hours:

1. SUPERMAN should have stayed in Krypton

I watched and sort-of enjoyed the new Superman movie.

2 redeemable points: One - anything with Kevin Spacey as the quirky antisocial Lex Luthor, Two - SPOILER ALERT finally an answer to the age old question of Clark Kent's procreative abilities. After that the movie fell somewhere between Batman Forever and Sky High. Though, I do appreciate the care they took to make the movie harken back to the days of Christopher Reed, but on second thought, that just made the movie tragic and sad.

But, I will say my favorite part of the entire movie is when the triumphant Messianic Kent says to his little sleeping halfling "
You will be different, sometimes you'll feel like an outcast, but you'll never be alone. You will make my strength your own. You will see my life through your eyes, as your life will be seen through mine. The son becomes the father and the father becomes the son." Seriously?!





2. Moping the floor with the sweet sweat of a hard days work.

We cleaned our apartment. It was boring, but took up a large part of Saturday so notable. The floors are clean and the laundry put away - oh goodie. Oh, and I took a shower.

3. Law School Birthday Party

I have learned that when budding legal minds gather for light snacking and heavy boozing things get interesting. Here are a few highlights: Participating/Observing a well articulated and rationalized argument about whether Jenifer Anisten or Angelina Jolie is better for Mr. Pitt, which morphed into a discussion about Brangelina's adoption practices & their legality, Being force-feed an almost ripe watermelon smothered in goat cheese, Being horrified by a graphic description of slaughter houses coupled with an uninvited diatribe about the finer points of vegetarianism, and eating a birthday "cake" made out of dim sum.

4. Oh, Sing to me Peter Gomes

Brett, law-friend-Eric and I went to church this morning at Memorial Chapel to hear the Right Reverend Gomes. He spoke with eloquence and candor unmatched. Then we went on to eat Pho at a local Vientamese restaurant and talk about our collective summers in DC. I equally enjoy the Albus quality of Gomesie & the fine banter between the husband and the law-friend.

Here are 2 things I learned today:
1. You can measure most relational variables between two hands. Imagine each finger as a tentacle of compatibility of each person, the level to which the persons are matched the fingers will interlock. This is both a quick-and-dirty way of measuring relational quality & a clever hand gesture when speaking with friends. For example: on the measure of humor, five out of five fingers makes for a full hand-hold of interlocking fingers, a three of five creates a stable but non-robust grasp, and a one/two of five makes for a casual/unstable connection.
2. It is widely agreed upon that people who do nothing but talk about money from the pulpit or any other place are, as the Reverend put it "most annoying and irritating". Simple words, profoundly true.

5. Bringing the Juices into the Wires

These are the songs I downloaded today:

1. I'll Stand By You (cover) - Carrie Underwood

Ms. Underwood has capture my heart and my wallet. She has a voice like a songbird in flight. She is a lot bit country and a little bit rock-and-roll. Now, she's no Kelly Clarkson, but not many lady singers get Brett rockin' out on his guitar covering their sassy ballads.


2. Come Again - Sting

The sultan of Channai Pop comes round with this delectable treat of lute & fife. Brett received 2 free songs from Ticketmaster after purchasing John Mayer tickets for the summer - this was my pick. Never has a 1500's cover sounded so sexy.


3. Too Little Too Late - JoJo

This one comes from left field. Brett has recently had a hankering for teeny-bopper pop music. Of all the songs of iTunes to pick he chose this one. Know that a role-reversal has taken place in our home recently, when on numerous occasions my lovely husband has scanned all the radio channels looking for this song while I was having a penchant for NPR - Go Figure!



So, friends (but mostly Holly) that was my weekend. I love you all and miss you and wish I was better at figuring out my time so I could talk to you more.

Seacrest, thank you for moosing it up every week to deliver gems like Carrie & Kelly to my doorstep,

Erin

Thursday, April 19, 2007

Pearls of Wisdom

I love everything about this short film - down the the smallest curl on Will Ferrell's head... every single piece of footage makes my sides ache & my body contort into some kind of pretzel or reduced-fat crescent roll.


I love Pearl - I would join her for a cold one anytime.

-Erin

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

"Hizzah! Her sides are made of angst" or "A moment among friends to vent"


ARGH!!!!

Is it possible to live in limbo for an entire year?! Seriously, can a single person - or in my case a couple - live for 12 whole months in a constant state of uncertainty and live to tell the tale? Whether or not you wanted an answer to these obviously rhetorical questions, here it is.... kind of.

Since last April the Arnold's have been going from one state of unknowing to the next. Here are a few of the questions I've/we've had to live with over the last year:

1. Law School?
1a. Go to law school at all?
1b. If yes, which law school in what town?

2. Where to live for the summer? this one is a repeat offender on the list.

3. Where to store belongings for that summer? so is this one.

4. How to move said junk cross country? Ship. Drive. Fly. Combo.

5. Once in new town what to do with self? Work. Study. Make friends. Cook. Combo. this doesn't seem like a hard question to answer, but believe me that I have spent many a day this past year stuck on this question (just ask my tivo).

6. Should I get a full-time or part-time job?
6a. Job in counseling or play therapy?
6b. Job at Peet's?

7. When is the best time to finish my master's thesis?
7a. Will the thesis ever be finished?
7b. Who can I blame for the thesis taking 6 months longer than expected?

8. Should we stay at Harvard?
8a. How long should we give this whole lawyer gig?
8aa. What are we going to do when we find out lawyering is not that bad?
8b. Is it okay to miss California and friends while really enjoying New England?

9. Where are we going to live this summer?
9a. Is it a good idea for me to go with Brett to D.C. or better to stay in Cambridge?
9b. Having made above decision, what am I going to do about my work... will they hold my job over the summer?

10. Where is Brett going to internship for the summer?
10a. What are we going to do with our house and stuff if we are not in Cambridge?
10b. Is working for IJM is best option? Should we hold out for something else or go with what we know is good and solidified?
10c. Are we going to be able to withstand the humidity of a summer in DC?

11. Who is going to sublet our apartment if the entire town is overrun with subletting options?
11a. Can I blame Alfred Marshall for my economic woes?
11b. What will I do if a gaggle of teenage French foreign exchange students are my only option? subquestion: can I handle having my couch smell like the cigarettes they swear they don't smoke?

12. Will I be able to get a job working in Autism & Floortime this summer? Will it pay enough to have some financial freedom?

So, a question for every month. Just reviewing all these decisions and transitions makes me begin to understand why my body is over producing norepinephrine these days. If after reading the list your heart is beating a bit faster, your palms are becoming a bit balmy and you are fearing not being able to fall asleep tonight - don't worry, these are just empathic side effects.

I realize that I could write an opposing list; full of all the questions & ponderings that have been life affirming this year- you know, the half-full stuff. I could write that list, and it would probably be good for me. I know. It just seems trite. Like an unnecessary and undeserved pat on the back - I would be patronizing myself. Being patronizing is never aceptable - NEVER ever, especially to one's self. In the same breath, if I look closely I can see all the beautiful things I've experienced this year in the heartbreak of the undecided. It's not all anxiety and black holes of angst, but there's been a lot of that too.

Thanks for listening. Now back to our regularly scheduled broadcast.

Seacrest, bathe me in the melody of the Sanjaya.

Erin